So I wrote about this before. But I just had to do visit this again…
This trend creeping into the society, I wonder if I just was too young to know of its existence – or I was just naïve to the core.
A woman would send her pictures to a man knowing it will turn him on, while another will send it because the man asked for it, well, sometimes demand for it.
She is hesitant at first, he keeps at it, he makes claims of neglect or no real love, then she caves in – ‘guiltfully’.
But whether willingly or forced, she’s left herself exposed and in a break up, case of phone theft, or even hacking, she is in trouble.
The few will sympathize, the masses will judge but it is her life that is tainted.
Dude, if you really love that woman, don’t let your minute satisfaction come before her.
Its true these pictures make up for some awol or MIA time, but ask yourself, will it be worth it if your woman was out there in the limelight, not for an award but a painstakingly life altering negative focus and you are the major role and character in her life’s tragic comedy series (trust me people will laugh and some will keep coming back for new episodes)
And you hitting that send button, that woman is also someone’s sister, daughter, mentor, role model…don’t make her one mistake be her end. Be kind. It could be your sister in pixels and another hitting the button.
The truth is, the best memories, I believe are never captured on camera.
There will be captured right where they should be…
Our eyes behold the details and our souls keeps them in the vaults where they should have been in the first place…..IN OUR HEARTS